Comments on: Justin Fisher Released from Prison

By: Phillip

Phillip — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 09:35:39 +0000

Melanie and I still think about Barry. We Truly miss him.

Phillip and Melanie

By: BEN

BEN — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 05:58:27 +0000

GIRL YOU WERE SO MUCH IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY I DO THINK IT WAS WRONG FOR WHAT HAPPEN. YAL DESERVERD EACH OTHER. LOVED THE MOVIE

By: Larry G

Larry G — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 00:03:52 +0000

Do we know where Justin Fisher is now?

By: Amy H

Amy H — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:17:48 +0000

I love this movie!! But I do not watch the end no more. I think it is so shitty how it all turned out. I honestly think Fisher should have been in there longer. He is the one who made this all happen. Glover he so stupid to listen to someone. I hope he gets his butt beat everyday in there. If I ever see if Fisher I’d probley hit him in his mouth.

By: keisha donnell

keisha donnell — Sat, 14 Jun 2008 23:53:34 +0000

Dear Calperrnia
I support everything you have been going through this whole time and I support who you are I don’t care if people are gay or not I like them for who they are I don’t care what people think of me anyways I just wanted to say sorry for your lost and everything and I wish those guys would have got more time in prison they deseve the worst for what they have done I have seen Solider’s Girl and tears run down my face evrytime I watch it that’s how bad I just can’t take that their are so many people out here doing the same thing to people and their familes it kills me to see that happening to people just because they r bi or gay lesbian it just kills me to see it and I hate it but I wish you the best of luck bye bye

By: christina snyder

christina snyder — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 05:16:21 +0000

I recently heard the story of your boyfriend Barry. I support all military personal AND gays and dont think that people should be excluded from protecting our country because of their sexual prefrence. Personally i REALLY dont care what their sexual prefrence is as long as they are protecting my freedom and the whole “Dont ask Dont tell” policy is a bunch of BS. People should be able to be themselves no matter what their sexual prefrence. I think Justin Fisher should have got a life sentence as well because he was responsible for the death of Barry as well. The fact that he is now out REALLY pi@#es me off. I hope you are doing alright and remember you are loved no matter what anyone says and Barry is loved as well wether he was gay or not. With much love and support,Christina

By: Kimee Miller

Kimee Miller — Sun, 19 Nov 2006 03:07:14 +0000

I have a human sexuality class that I am in and we watched soldier’s girl today. I have found myself torn of this world of hatred we live in. living in my sometimes own world (going to work, going to school and getting up and doing it over and over again) I have found myself wondering why one should really care about how another lives one life be it, seuxality, job, interests or whatever. It really just should not even matter, but the reality it does, to most people. I caught myself wondering how it must have been for you and i just can not even begin to understand how hard it must have been for you, and still contunies to be. As one woman to another I find yourself to be a true inspriration in that we should be who we want to be and strive for a better world with so much less hate for another.

By: SamanthaQ

SamanthaQ — Fri, 10 Nov 2006 06:35:07 +0000

Hi Callie,

I haven't really said much of anything, I have not known what. Now, I'm still not certain what to say, but I know what I feel.

Everyone lost. No-one really deserved it. We all lost, and I pray daily for a better world where no-one has to lose like we have.

I lost someone to violence too. I read your book too soon and was lost for a time to the echoes of my own loss.

Now, I grieve with you, for you, Barry and all the lives touched. I grieve for my Earl too.

I can so see why you like "Dreamer" and while I have yet to see the movie, I know it should be at the end. There is this almost Miami Vice feel to dreamer, like one of those scenes when something IS happening that is bad, or they are "thinking" back over something or someone lost. Me, I couldn't help but think of Earl, and I'm gripped again by the sadness and loss.

You deserve, WE deserve, to be happy and loved. We both found it once, held it, embraced it, knew it. The fire in my heart, the dream in my soul, is to be so blessed again. Barry and Earl will always be with us, their love, goodness, and lasting gift to each of us, is that for a time, love was real. Their love was real.

Hang in there girlfriend and know he, they will be remembered and if there is any justice in the universe they are happy and safe somewhere watching the Giant's snatch defeat from the jaws of victory, or some such.

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to get so deep. Didn't mean to make us both sad. So if I did, forgive me? I just needed to say something. So I'm sending you a big hug, and a heartfelt thanks. You've touched a bunch of lives, and touched mine, and I'll be forever grateful. You helped me see that I could do this, could survive it, and make a new, different, even better life for myself.

Thank you Callie and I'm so deeply, genuinely sorry.

By: Darlie

Darlie — Tue, 07 Nov 2006 23:33:12 +0000

I think you made a great point in that everyone lost from this including Justin. What I wish for you is the happiness you really deserve and the peace to live a normal life.

By: Damien

Damien — Sat, 28 Oct 2006 09:43:56 +0000

Hi Calpernia:

I truly appreciate how the events surrounding Barry Winchell must cause you to feel a myriad of emotions. I want to add one more thing that makes me sad; it is that such a beautiful, sensitive, intelligent and caring woman was robbed of someone who loved her by selfish, bigoted sociopaths and what I feel is a brutish, self-absorbed and immature system. You have the right to love and be loved Calpernia, and no one had/has the right to deny you that.